Broken Dictionary 

Hello lavs. It’s been a while. I thought I had a scheduled post but alas, I did not. What with getting married and settling down in a new place, life has been a tad crazy. Can you believe it’s the end of September? Insane. I literally can’t believe the year is about to end. 

I wanted to start with a Taking Stock post and share my current craves and happenings but there’s something fun I’d like to share with you all. You know how sometimes there is an African article you read online or a book and there are certain words written in pidgin language you can’t seem to understand? Well, some really cool people came up with an idea to help via a website called It is an online platform for sharing and learning Pidgin English words and phrases from Nigeria, China, Cameroon, Ghana, Hawaii and other places across the globe. So basically, you can put in words unique to where you are from as well as learn from other people from different countries. How rad is that! It’s still relatively new but I’m interested to see how awesome it can get. 

Go visit the website and share a few words that you know in pidgin. Or check for that one word you have been hearing your wafi friends say and you can’t seem to figure out. Make this happen loves. 😊

You can also follow Broken Dictionary on twitter, @forpidgin.

Until next time loves, stay awesome ❤️. 


Wardrobe Staples: Bags and Accesories

Wardrobe Staples: Bags and Accesories

Wardrobe Staples: Jewellery

Wardrobe Staples: Jewellery

Wardrobe Staples: Shoes

Wardrobe Staples: Shoes

Christian Louboutin leather pumps
$630 –

Versus gold heel shoes
$585 –

D orsay flat

Heels & pumps

Greek sandals

Ballet shoes
$15 –

Wardrobe Staples: Clothing

Wardrobe Staples: Clothing

Loyd Ford lace dress
$1,735 –

Little Mistress black dress
$44 –

Pierre Balmain black jacket
$1,175 –

Be Selfish

Hello lavs!
How are you guys doing with your ‘resolutions’? The first month in 2015 is already over (pretty quick, huh?), and sadly a lot of us have dropped half of our ‘resolutions’ already.

It’s kinda obvious that I’m always talking about goals and self improvement. I’m all about that. But the truth, while it is fun to write down all the things you intended to achieve in the future, it is a lot harder and a lot less fun actually working to fulfil those goals.

It’s February 1st and I’m sure some of us expected a sudden change in our characters, our weights, and everything we wished for in general. Honey, it took you about 9 months to be made, it took you a whole lot more time to develop the habits you have now, so it is going to take even more time to achieve your goals. It has to be a conscious effort. You will fall and get up again. That’s what makes your journey unique and exciting. Even when you love what you have started, creating time for it might be very hard.

So today, for the month of February, I want to leave you (and me first) with a couple of advices.

1. Make your goals realistic for you. A friend of mine told me to join her in reading 200 books this year. As much as I love to read, I just do not have enough time at the moment. I have not even finished the first book I started. So, I told myself, I would read as much as I can this year. I have to be realistic and understand that I have a lot on my plate right now. That way, even if I don’t read up to 200 books, I won’t feel like I failed at my goal.

2. Make your goals fun and pleasurable. If you have a goal that seems like the one I mentioned above, after a while it begins to look like a chore. All the fun gets taken out of it because you have put yourself in a box. Relax. Take it easy on yourself. There are tons of things daily that stress us out already.

3. Do it for you. Not for your friends. Not for your partner. Not for social media. Make a change for you. Whether it is losing weight or travelling more, do it because you want to. Not because everyone is doing it or someone says you should.

4. Everyday do something that gets you closer to your goal.

Overall, when it involves improving ourselves, we have to be ready to fight like hell to do it. Whether it is working out daily, eating healthier, quitting alcohol, it is not going to be easy.
So take a minute and think about your goals again. Ask yourself why you want to engage in those particular things. Take a big breath. Be selfish. Make those goals about yourself first. Put yourself first. Embrace your journey.
Trust me, it would work out this time.
In sha Allah.


16 Most Important Things Every Woman Should Learn

This is one of the most beautiful things I have read this year. To all my sisters out there, this os for you.

infinite satori

“A woman is a beast. She is as lovely as she is repulsive. She is one part demon and one part goddess, one part slave and one part muse, one part child and one part mother. These contradictions are what makes a woman so intoxicating.”

– Andrea Mary Marshall


Note: This not just limited to one gender, it’s for everyone. But it is, however, dedicated to the sisterhood.

To every single woman in this world, I dedicate this post to you. May we always strive to become better people.

1. To be brave and to always follow your fears.

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”- Anais Nin

If you weren’t afraid of anything, what would you do?

With courage, you are given the power to do anything in the world. We hold ourselves back so much because of fear. I’ve known so many women who have…

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I’ve Changed…

I’ve changed…

No, don’t roll your eyes just yet. I’ve changed…for good this time.


It is major.

I have changed….

…my blog address

to HADIZAOBI.WORDPRESS.COM. (In case you didn’t notice already.)

Don’t hate me. 😀

And do not go to It’s gone. The old posts are here.

I wonder why I chose the old name, seeing as I don’t really like being called ‘deeza’.

Well, it was a spur-of-the-moment decision. The cockroaches caused it, remember? 🙂

Well, don’t forget…I have changed…

I mean it! Don’t go typing into your browser! Please.

It is still Hadiza behind the blog.

Ciao, lavs. xoxo

Office In Black

Office In Black

Long tube skirt
$90 –

Office black stiletto pumps
$105 –

100 Truths About Me

Hi Lavs. Thanks to a couple of people, I finally got an idea of what to write and here it is! 100 truths about me. Enjoy.

1. Last beverage→ Tea.
2. Last phone call→ A classmate from university.
3. Last text message→ MTN         
4. Last song you listened to→ Drunk In Love By Beyonce…by mistake. -_-
5. Last time you cried→ Earlier this week. 

❤ Have You Ever…
6. Dated someone twice? No.
7. Been cheated on?→ Maybe. Not my business.         
8. Beat someone?→ Yes.
9. Lost someone special? To death, yes.
10. Been depressed?→ Yes.
11. Been drunk and threw up? → No. 😀

12. White
13. Black
14. Blue
15. Green

16. Made new friends → Yes
17. Fallen out of love → Yes
18. Laughed until you cried→ Yes
19. Met someone who changed you→ Yes
20. Found out who your true friends were → Yes.
21. Found out someone was talking about you → Yes! LOL. Didn’t care.
22. Kissed anyone on your friend’s list → What is this friend list ‘you’ speak of?
23. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life → I am still searching for the special friend list under my bed.
25. Do you have any pets → Yes. A cat.
26. Do you want to change your name→ No. 
27. What did you do for your last birthday → Went out with my family…and ate one cupcake. Lol.
28. What time did you wake up today → 6:58am! Whaa?!
29. What were you doing at midnight last night → Sleeping like a baby.
30. Name something you cannot wait for → Too many to mention.
31. Last time you saw your father → About a year ago. 
32. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life → My spirituality (working on making it  better) and my bank account. 😀
33. What are you listening to right now → People leaving my office…
34. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom → Yes…Tom Cat of ‘Tom and Jerry’ *ok bye* (What a question)
35. What’s getting on your nerves right now? → Nothing. 
36. Most visited webpage → Google, my best friend.
37. What’s your name → Kelechi Hadiza Cybil Obiagwu
38. Nicknames→ Kaycee, K.C. Cycy, Iya Kekere [by my mother -_-] ( and please do not call me Deeza)
39. Relationship Status → Single.
40. Zodiac sign→ Pisces (and no, I don’t do horoscopes anymore)
41. Male or female or transgendered→ Female
42. Primary→ SOS Hermann Gmeiner Primary School, Lagos.
43. High School → Federal Government Girls’ College, Akure.
44. College → University of Ilorin
45. Hair colour → Black.
46. Long/medium/short → Medium-long. Yes, take it like that!
47. Height → 5’ 7’’
48. Do you have a crush on someone? Yes. On someone that doesn’t know I exist.
49: What do you like about yourself? → Everything. 🙂
50. Home Town → Ideato South
51. Tattoos → No
52. Right handed or left handed → Right Handed

53. First surgery → Does a mini one on the side of my face count? 
54. First relationship → Me and God. 
55. First best friends → Me and my mum. ❤ 
56. First sport you joined → Volleyball (in primary school)
57. First pet → Tiger, my cat.
58. First vacation→ Can’t remember…I think Kogi State.
59. First concert → None.
60. First crush → Michael Jackson. 😀

61. Eating → Nothing
62. Drinking → Water
63. Already missing → my lunch…I am about to faint here! Hehe.
64. I’m about to → finish this post and leave my office.
65. Listening to → A Mufti Menk Lecture
66. Thinking about → Food…and my life. 

67. Waiting for? Something wonderful and amazing to happen

68. Want kids? → Yes.
69. Want to get married? → Yes
70. Careers in mind → Entrepreneurship, Lecturing, Writing et cetera. (They are many!!)

71. Lips or eyes → BOTH
72. Hugs or kisses → Hugs…can’t get kisses from everyone. (Herpes is real kids. LOL)
73. Shorter or taller → Taller
74. Older or Younger → Older
75. Romantic or spontaneous → Romantic enough to be spontaneous
76. Nice stomach or nice arms → Both
77. Sensitive or loud → Sensitive
78. Hook-up or relationship → Definitely not hook-ups
79. Trouble maker or hesitant→ In Between

81. Drank hard liquor → As a child…*eyelashes*
82. Lost glasses/contacts → No. I am a good gal
83. Had sex on 1st date – No
84. Broken someone’s heart → I do not know.
85. Had your own heart broken → Yes
86. Been arrested → Yes. Hahaha.
87. Turned someone down → Yes
88. Cried when someone died → Yes

89. Yourself → Yes
90. Miracles → Of course
91. Love at first sight → No
92. Heaven → Yes
93. Santa Claus → No
94. Angels → Yes


95. Are you afraid of falling in love? Yeah, a bit.
96. When was the last time you lied? Can’t remember. I really don’t like lying.

97. Are you usually late, early or right on time? Depends on the occasion.
98. Are you a good person? Sometimes…lol.
99. Wish you could change things in your past? Yeah. Some.
100. Are you posting this as 100 Truths? → Yes…didn’t you get the memo? :p

You can ask any other question if you want to. I’d definitely answer. ❤

 Have a nice weekend. xo, Hadiza